OMG pay for it yourself. This is not the time for you to have any expectations from her. Bite the bullet Bryan. She needs support too right now and you are here so obviously you are the one strong enough to save this marriage. I do not think agreeing with everthing to save your marriage is a bad thing. They say to do that on Marriage Builders, not so much DR. Sorry but if you bring up that money stuff you will sound petty or cheapin her eyes, or at least that you are back pedalling on something you said you would do. She may be a passenger or she may get some really good infromation. I know my H went to MC and his heart was not into it but at least I got something out of it. Think of it that way. You will win either way. Either you get something out of it with her or all on your own. Retro has a lot of success.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
