Neph, I wanted to rip a new one when I thought your H did that to S9 too! Aren't we bad. That is why it is so impotant to give them the benefit of the doubt. Make it a practice. If he is standoffish (is that a word?) then you can just assume it is because he is testing out your waters to see if you are angry. DBing is such a tight rope. Sometimes it is hard to know if we are supposed to be postive, confidant humble, but overall I am not sure if a entiltement and DB go hand in hand. It may take a little humbleness (is that a word?) to DB sometimes. We may have to carry the load, like Donna and OT mentioned, until the WAS is strong enough to pick up the slack later after Piecing. Still there are no guarantees but you have done so WELL!!! You are on your way to becoming one of those success stories on the forum. Truly well done.
I am aslo down two or three sizes but I am less confident about me body. I think it has something to do with being single. I used to have a H who worshipped my size 12 body and the fact that I pushed out his proginy from this goddess body. Now I feel empty about my size 7 body with my boobs that nursed for 4 years and my tummt with stretch marks for my babies. sigh. I feel like what otherman should ever see me naked but he has seen another person naked nightly for seven months or more!!! Crazy!
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
