I rememeber you from a long time ago. Sorry you're still here. The old advice is still the best advice, allthough it kills us. Work on you, your confidence, what you will do if you have to go it alone. Lovingly detach. That has been the hardest for me, as well, because of all we have to lose, a way of life, a family that's intact...the whole enchilada. Like me, you must look at your kids and have your heart ripped out. Your shifting focus is outstanding. working out...fantastic. I'm currently in Iraq, but believe it or not, it has done so much to renew my confidence in ME. I know how capable I really am, amd realize that W. making me feel like I'm insignificant is not reality. (I had to go 6200 miles and endure indirect fire to figure it out!) You KNOW that's what you have to do. where has the pursuit gotten you before? You KNOW the answer to that. Be strong, be confident...don't go back to the lap dog behavior. It does not win nayone back. Women love strength of character. Set boundaires. Don't hang yourself out there for one "I miss you" "Oh yeah, then get your as* home to your kids, stop setting a bad example with other men" Sorry, man, but it as&&es my off to no end that WASs walk out not just on their spouse, btu a whole family, and justify the whole thing!
