He's on Match.com

[mkultra]

If it does not feel right maybe you should not do it. I know how you feel. I was under a contract deadline for my job to go full time or stay part time. I had no idea what my H's plans were and I have a S2 that I wanted to rear as a SAHM. The thought of signing a contract scared the bejeezes out of me and the thought of my baby in FT daycare broke my heart but then the thought of being alone on a single paycheck or welfare, yikes. So I did have to have faith and go with my gut and only work part time and take the risk that my H would be sane enough to support us a while. Yikes. It sucks. I know.
I know that Homer says that too and I have to tell you that I have not gone on any dates with men but I do go out and it haskind of served the same purpose. GAL. I also try to look my best and word has gotten back to my H and I think he realizes that I could be desirable to others, but I do not think that counts until I reallydate someone who could potentially replace him as a father figure with my D6, that would probably be the ONLY thing that would remotely bring him home.

Your H reminds me of the Jeff Bridges DJ character in the Fisher King movie with Robin Williams. He treated his really hot wife like crap for no reason except of his own MLC and failures and low self esteem. He blamed her for being too loving, loyal and sexy!!! Crazy.