He will be here within the next couple hours.

I agree that it isn't grounds for divorce, per se, but I'm not going to pretend I don't know.

If this was happening to his sister, I know she would rip the guy a new a'hole and tell him to f off. If this was happening to my daughter, I would be disgusted and tell her to tell him to dump him. Would Beyonce' put up with this? Would Demi Moore? Somebody name me a strong woman with self respect, that would put up with this?????

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing