He's on Match.com

[mkultra]

Have you told him yet about Match.com? You could make a joke about it to let him know. Or would that expose you? Do you want to keep tabs on him? I say let it go and burn it somehow. It is too tempting to keep your eye on it so I think you should tell him that you saw it and he needs to make it private so that you will not see it. I hated having to tell my H that about his email acct that would appear in my email acct. but I did it on his voicemail and laughed it off. Very awkward but it had to be done to protect me. I wish there were other rules of engangement throughout this process as it is quite humiliating for my H to be seen with his OW in public at all. I am sure itis gross to think someone you know could see his profile so let him know in a non judgemental way if possible that it hurts you. Only if you feel like it. But do not let him stay on there just for the sake of spying on his activity. I almost allowed my H to keep his email in my email box after thinking I could also spy on him, but what for? To see if he was on drugs or writing sexy notes to some whore? That is wrong all the way around. Wrn him to be discreet immediately or you will see his profile. If he asks if you are on Match.com tell the truth. Or let himthink you are looking for a date. Just kidding. not.