As I go back and think about it, he was most interested in US dating after he hadn't seen me for a couple of weeks and I wasn't being his good friend. We were "forced" to get together for a wedding and he was very thrilled. He actually was forced to see that dating wasn't all that great, especially because I wasn't available to fill the voids.
And now, he is back to trying to distance himself, etc.
I did not make him work hard enough to get back.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing