No, what's happening now isn't working.

As I go back and think about it, he was most interested in US dating after he hadn't seen me for a couple of weeks and I wasn't being his good friend. We were "forced" to get together for a wedding and he was very thrilled. He actually was forced to see that dating wasn't all that great, especially because I wasn't available to fill the voids.

And now, he is back to trying to distance himself, etc.

I did not make him work hard enough to get back.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing