I am starting to think that the WAS need to jump thru more hoops than the LBS make them in order to reconnect. (You know my sitch, so I am certainly not the poster child for this.)

So, easy to dole out advice when it's not me. \:\)

Anyway, you guys had been dating, and then she pulled the plug to wanting to be separated again. Is one text message enough? Shouldn't she have to go thru a bit more work?

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing