Isnt it amazing how we seem to long for what we dont have? My W is in Vegas with a "freind" for a week and I've been with my three hyper boys non-stop for 5 days now. I would love a break, but I also remember how many times I missed tucking my boys into thier beds when I was forced to sleep alone in an apartment.
At these times, it's easy to wonder why we stay patient with this process.
I also read that we have to avoid being contentious about the hours of custody. During separation it becomes natural for the parents to take either side of the argument. The WAS is damned if they do and damned if they don't so it is sugeested the LBS agree. I was also advised this by my attorney brother. Give H what he asks for and he will take less than half. Fight him over it and he will take all of the half. It has been true! I actually agree with Neph. I have to juggle between babysitters, a nanny, my family, daycare, and finally my H but it is worth it that my kids do not spend a night away from home and away from me while my H is in an unstable place. Sorry hijack.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
