New to the forums...just posted my full thread under MLC, but I have a quick question.
My husband and I are separated, with him still w/ the OW. But, we still have some shared accounts. Things will pop up that show he is continuing the A--like EZ-Pass toll payments near her place, even our UPromise account showing him using his credit card for a dinner in NYC! I have known the A has been continuing and finally been good at stopping my obsessive thinking about it and monitoring his whereabouts. But, how do you deal with getting surprise proof of the continuing A? Also, I'm seeing him next week, should I mention this to him?
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF
