[hiscott]

Thanks thotherhalf. Finally, I'm come to realize that pursuing behaviors do not help the situation. They only lower your self-esteem and possibly push your partner further way.

W is in Vegas for a week with a "friend" and a couple of nights ago she texts me "Miss you". wow. She has not expressed anything that strong in a year. My counselor has warned me not to get too excited about these kinds of messages. W is amazingly inconsistent and confused as to what to do. Counselor has recommended that I wait until I hear something like "I want to work on our marriage" before taking anything that she says too seriously. It's hard not to jump on something like "Miss you". Should I pursue?