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[theotherhalf]

go to him, look in his eyes and with your heart open say that. You might end up helping him more than you know.

I hope that you are right. I too said this to my H last Monday night. I also said that I wouldn't really love him if I didn't want what was best for him. For him to be happy. And that I am worried that he is losing himself. That all this lieing, sneaking around, cheating, is so not him at all. That if she makes him happy, then go be with her. (He still denies Her)

H didn't say too much, just looked off and almost looked as though he could cry. He never cries. Don't know if he "heard" me but glad I said it.