I guess hiscott we "know" that pursuing for the most part does not work. So giving them space or getting a divorce are our only options. Both are hard. But, either way it is "our" desicion to make.

Be strong. Take care of yourself and your kids. Do what is best.

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!