Those mixed signals are so frustrating. They seem to hand out the cookies, we get so excited, but then they crumble through our fingers.
It is great that she is reading 5 love languages. My WAW is avoiding that kind of introspection. Don’t push her on it. If she wants to talk about it with you, great. But, she is probably sick of hearing about your feelings.
I would hope that W thought about the comment to D11 about “mommy and daddy getting back together”. If so is that confused, it seems cruel to possibly get a childs hopes up.
Hang in there. Be patient and wait for a real cookie, one that clearly states that she is ready to work on the R.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair