Catfan,

Those mixed signals are so frustrating. They seem to hand out the cookies, we get so excited, but then they crumble through our fingers.

It is great that she is reading 5 love languages. My WAW is avoiding that kind of introspection. Don’t push her on it. If she wants to talk about it with you, great. But, she is probably sick of hearing about your feelings.

I would hope that W thought about the comment to D11 about “mommy and daddy getting back together”. If so is that confused, it seems cruel to possibly get a childs hopes up.

Hang in there. Be patient and wait for a real cookie, one that clearly states that she is ready to work on the R.


Me-46;W-42
Together 23 yrs Married 16
S11 S8 S6
02/10/03 Her 1st affair
10/01/06 Sep Bomb
01/01/07 Sep Begins
03/09/07 Her 2nd affair

My Sitch