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BUT you do need to know that there will eventually BE a destination. Does this make sense?


Absolutely true, especially for someone like me who lived through a long period of biscuit-hoarding famine. In my current sich, I KNOW that GP is strongly sexually attracted to me (because he says stuff like "I am strongly sexually attracted to you.")so it's cool with me if he wants to play me bunny 'cause I like that too. All I have to do is play him a teeny bit monkey to get an obvious sexual reaction. I would say that with him, it's not that he has an on/off switch but more like a serious "point of no return" -kind of like the Hulk-it's interesting to me that he actually looks bigger with his clothes off too. GP can be quite non-sexually monkey but he doesn't have much sexual monkey so I would say most of our sexual interactions so far have been along the lines of he plays me bunny until I feel like playing him monkey until I push him over the line like a monkey teasing a panther and I find my bunkey-*ss being dragged down a hallway on semi-tiptoe and I have about 30 seconds to rise to lioness because there is no way in h*ll my monkey can take his panther. I should note that he does give me fair warning like he'll say "If you do that again, I am going to have to take you." and then maybe my monkey pauses reflectively for about 10 seconds and then, of course, she goes ahead and does it again (sigh).


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver