maybe, as you've been pushing and persuing a bit, then backed off and she's noticed, she's afraid you won't be able to keep the non-pushing up, and thus if you move out it guarantees she isn't pushed.
Is there a spare room in your house? Maybe you could move into that - REALLY move into it, take all your stuff etc, then be out a lot when she's home?
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