My husband of 27 years started emailing his old girlfriend in April of 06. By the summer they were calling each other every day, and in September he met her when he traveled for business. In Novemeber he claimed to need a vacation "by himself" and went off to spend 4 days with her. That's when I became suspicious. We had a few confrontations and ugly exchanges and seemed headed for divorce. But a friend suggested that we go to a Retrouvaille weekend, so we did.
At the Retrouvaille weekend we reconciled. We learned how to communicate effectively and how to respect each others' feelings. We regained the feeling that we had for each other when we were married. We continued with the Post sessions and graduated from Retrouvaille in March 07. We have been happy together ever since. We have not had another argument since Retrouvaille. Weird.
