To clarify....by me getting peeved because I want time to myself and I get the poops when the plans change (not his fault admittedly, d just didn't want to go with him to see his parents because she would miss out on her first gymnastics lesson) and then I (basically) demand that I get guaranteed time to myself next w/e I am being unreasonable.
does that make sense? Oh I wish I could be in his head so I understood.
I think I am just going to have to say straight out. I need time out. I don't want to see you. I don't want to prevent you seeing d so we will need to communicate around that but I don't want to spend time alone with you.
