I'm curious as to whether anyone else has had this experience with the ON/OFF approach in their partner's sexuality?
Like RJ and Lillie said, all this teasing anticipatory vibe works SO much better when you have emotionally gotten the memo that this IS going to last for awhile, meals will be regular and you no longer feel the need to attack like a starving bear at a pancake breakfast.......
Yes, and most of the time it was the OFF approach with the wife.
With us, even with the teasing, it was still somewhat ON/OFF. It wasn't until I made a good honest effort to become more emotionally in tune with all the other non-sexual aspects of our relationship, that has led the teasing to take on a life of it's own. Now instead of ON/OFF, it's more like a dimmer switch
Son of a gun...pancakes !!! It's almost 11:00 PM and now I've got the cravings for pancakes --- off to the kitchen I go
