Okay - if you have another phone conversation like that with her in the future, would you please tape record it? Find out if the laws in your state require you to inform her first or not, then tape it. I think you need it to defend yourself in the future if that restraining order business ever comes up again.
I think you handled the stuff at her house well. Let HER pursue YOU for a change. Right now I get the feeling she's just checking to see if you're still on the hook. Don't let her feel TOO confident about that.
