wow, you guys. I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I'm not necessarily scared of H physically. although I take that back, I am in a way. he has never hit me, but once I found out about the affair he has intimidated me physically more than once...mostly locked me in a room and refused to let me pass by him (to talk). he's 5'10" and 180's, not much I can do at 5'2" and 120's. that knowledge is scary. do I think he would hurt me? no. but he can physically intimidate me, and that is a bit scary. very scary to try to leave a room and have someone tell you you can't and realize hey, you really can't.
not saying either of you would ever do anything like that at all. but sometimes being small makes a person feel a bit vulnerable at times. I used to look on my H as my protector. not anymore.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
