I agree with neph (she is so wise, isn't she?) about not being there every time H comes over. don't re-arrange your life. show that you are out there GAL and reschedule/don't answer for what works for you.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"