NO NO NO NO! Stay out of the MLC forum. Nothing to be gained there unless enabling is on the menu. Going hasn't even found himself yet.
Really? Enabling? I found that reading up on MLC helped me understand why my husband was acting so strange... so I could stop trying to control the situation, stop taking it personal, and let him go... and do my own thing. (I also got hit with a lot of 2x4s there!).
I do agree with you that Gish needs to go find himself. Gish that is definitely the most important thing you can do. Quit focusing on your W.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
