I understand what you mean that the way he is acting is trying to keep things friendly & amicable. That's good though. You guys need to be friends again before you can start piecing again anyway.

Just go w/ the flow. Make sure you keep your DB face on at all times. I honestly think that actually being separated may be the best thing.

I wouldn't contact him any more than you HAVE to. Get out there & show him the woman he would never want to D. Figure out how to be happy w/ YOU and your life w/o him and then let him realize that he still wants to be a part of it. You can figure out how to fit him back into your busy, happy life once he gets it together and wants to come back.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10