I have to agree w/ others -- first, if you are comfortable w/ it, tell her about our site here; secondly, hopefully from coming here, she will figure out she needs to look at herself before she starts pointing all the fingers at her H.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10