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[Michael Mc C]

Admittedly, I would have issues with it. One thing I've learned about myself is that if I sit and imagine the worst, I'll go nuts.

Are you on good enough terms with your wife to explain how you feel about her plans and that for your own peace of mind, ask her to come up with an alternative? Is there anyone else that could fill in as your voice of reason (I imagine it would need to be someone that SHE has told of the plans)?

I'm far too new at this, I'm afraid, to give any sound advice. This is such a delicate situation.

Does anyone else here have any thoughts on this (and please, don't be afraid to contradict my ideas!!)