Hang tough, tostada. Sure, she's gonna be unhappy when you deviate from The Master Plan. Don't let that intimidate you into doing something you know is not in your family's best interest.
How long is it until your next MC session? Maybe that would be a "safe" place to bring this up?
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!