Originally Posted By: Lissie2414
Oh Mwel I am sorry to hear you had such a bad night

(((((MWEL))))))

I hope you are feeling better today. There are those tough days and then some days are better. I hope you can turn this around like me is. I am here for you if you need me.

So what were you crying over last night? Do you want to talk about it?


Just one of those days. I was mainly crying because of the whole divorce papers signing but there was a little more than that. For some reason I just keep thinking that its over, but like me said its not over just cause of a piece of paper and I need to learn to accept that. Im much better today.

Originally Posted By: Just_Me
Very good Lissie....that's what his wife needed last night.

I'm not trying to bust your chops mwel; we've all been there and know the pain. It's not any kind of manipulation or mind games that will work to help your marriage...it's learning to listen and empathize. She was...I don't know...upset or bored or worried or whatever last night, and who did she call? You. Be the friend she can call....you should want to since you love her. Sorry you were so sad last night and yesterday...hope you worked it out of your system.

Yeah I want to be her friend and I need to learn to control myself and be there for her because I want to be the person she calls when ever she needs anything or just wants to talk. Yes I got it out of my system last night.

Thank you both very much for repling to my posts...