A friend of ours is having a birthday party Saturday night and W and I have been invited. I asked W about her interest in going and she's a bit hesitant. I think I may have mentioned that she has just about cut everyone out of her life that is not involved with her on-line game - I'm not sure if this is just an extension of that or if it's related to the cold she still has (or her lack of interest in driving the 40 miles to the restaurant with me).
Anyway, I told her that I would be going as our friend has come to my wife's last 4 birthday parties and our last 2 or 3 New Years parties (and it's a sushi restaurant, I love sushi).
Quick history: W and I rarely went to a social even without the other. Besides the Labor Day fishing trip with her brother (the weekend where the online romance REALLY heated up apparently) this would be the first time since May that I went out without her.
The friend is in her mid-20's and my wife has never been very omfortable around her as she (the friend) likes to be the center of attention. I would never rub her face in it or try to make her jealous or suspicous about this. If she doesn't go to the party with me, I will simply treat it as what it truly is - going to spend time with friends and having a good time for ME.
A little squriming wouldn't be too bad though, I have to admit.
BTW (not that anyone's asking): I have no romantic intersts in this friend. She's a beautiful woman but, besides the fact that I love my wife WAY too much to even consider seeing anyone, her realtionships are usually far more screwed up than mine!)
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