Before this, there was this undefined tension to get the sex in...this shift really is something new, like this week new.
I really get this... you can flirt and tease but if there isn't some "real sex" somewhere in there, it's as if the flirting and teasing "didn't count." Like basketball or golf-- running & jumping, passing, walking in the sun, hitting great drives, but if the ball doesn't go in the hole, it doesn't really matter.
I like the attitude that GP expresses, and ironically, it's only effective if there IS some real sex somewhere down the line, but you can't focus ONLY on the real sex. You need to enjoy the journey [ ] as well as the arrival at the destination, BUT you do need to know that there will eventually BE a destination. Does this make sense?
] as well as the arrival at the destination, BUT you do need to know that there will eventually BE a destination. Does this make sense?