she was stressed out and she needed to get out of the hotel and just wanted someone to talk to.
And this is exactly the type of situation that you need to take advantage of, because it isn't going to come around all the time. You have to get yourself together and quit with the crying and pity party so that you are strong enough for this. This is a series of baby-steps, not giant leaps, and if you could have been her friend at the moment she needed you, it could have been a plus, but you thought first of your own pain and you weren't there. Next time she might call someone else when she justs wants someone to talk to.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
Oh Mwel I am sorry to hear you had such a bad night
(((((MWEL))))))
I hope you are feeling better today. There are those tough days and then some days are better. I hope you can turn this around like me is. I am here for you if you need me.
So what were you crying over last night? Do you want to talk about it?
Very good Lissie....that's what his wife needed last night.
I'm not trying to bust your chops mwel; we've all been there and know the pain. It's not any kind of manipulation or mind games that will work to help your marriage...it's learning to listen and empathize. She was...I don't know...upset or bored or worried or whatever last night, and who did she call? You. Be the friend she can call....you should want to since you love her. Sorry you were so sad last night and yesterday...hope you worked it out of your system.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
Oh Mwel I am sorry to hear you had such a bad night
(((((MWEL))))))
I hope you are feeling better today. There are those tough days and then some days are better. I hope you can turn this around like me is. I am here for you if you need me.
So what were you crying over last night? Do you want to talk about it?
Just one of those days. I was mainly crying because of the whole divorce papers signing but there was a little more than that. For some reason I just keep thinking that its over, but like me said its not over just cause of a piece of paper and I need to learn to accept that. Im much better today.
Originally Posted By: Just_Me
Very good Lissie....that's what his wife needed last night.
I'm not trying to bust your chops mwel; we've all been there and know the pain. It's not any kind of manipulation or mind games that will work to help your marriage...it's learning to listen and empathize. She was...I don't know...upset or bored or worried or whatever last night, and who did she call? You. Be the friend she can call....you should want to since you love her. Sorry you were so sad last night and yesterday...hope you worked it out of your system.
Yeah I want to be her friend and I need to learn to control myself and be there for her because I want to be the person she calls when ever she needs anything or just wants to talk. Yes I got it out of my system last night.
Thank you both very much for repling to my posts...
Oh Mwel I am glad to hear you are feeling better. I hope you have a great weekend and get out and do something fun. I am not sure where you are located but it is almost Halloween so go out and see some scary stuff and have some fun.
Oh Mwel I am glad to hear you are feeling better. I hope you have a great weekend and get out and do something fun. I am not sure where you are located but it is almost Halloween so go out and see some scary stuff and have some fun.
Thanks Lissie, Im in Ohio and its almost holloween here also. Tonight Im going to a costume party with somefriends then I think we may go to some haunted houses afterwards. You have a good weekend also..
It can't be that bad of a night,,IF, you are a Browns or Bengals fan!! The Steelers lost to my beloved Broncos' tonight, 31-28, Yeaeee! I was sitting in front of my STBXH and my 2 boys who are all Steeler fans. H will be served w/papers tomorrow b/c i'm tired of being bullied and lied to when it comes to my kids i'm very protective!
Anyway, I had a bad night until the Broncos' won w/2 seconds left on the clock,,as H was hitting me in the back of the head w/his terrible towel. But in the end I got my happiness,,,
I hope you found yours tonight,,Keep positive and know that this will all be over soon(the pain that is)(((HUGS)))!
Kim
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It can't be that bad of a night,,IF, you are a Browns or Bengals fan!! The Steelers lost to my beloved Broncos' tonight, 31-28, Yeaeee! I was sitting in front of my STBXH and my 2 boys who are all Steeler fans. H will be served w/papers tomorrow b/c i'm tired of being bullied and lied to when it comes to my kids i'm very protective!
Anyway, I had a bad night until the Broncos' won w/2 seconds left on the clock,,as H was hitting me in the back of the head w/his terrible towel. But in the end I got my happiness,,,
I hope you found yours tonight,,Keep positive and know that this will all be over soon(the pain that is)(((HUGS)))!
Kim
Get out of here, Im a Broncos fan also. Im not a big fan of the Steelers and always like to see them lose. I'm kinda the sole broncos fan here in Columbus, everyone else is either a Browns, Bengals or steelers fan. My W got us tickets to the broncos/chiefs game on December 9, so we will be going to that together. The nite got a little better when the games came on, plus I will talking to a friend most of the nite. She helps me by not thinking about whats going on.
okay so I decided to check my myspace account cause I havent in a while because I get temped to look at my w's acct. Well I did look at it and her status is "single", why did I look at that? Why do I hurt so much now?
But in the end I got my happiness,,,