Calling All Cats :)

[cat03]

hey luv. He's having a check up next week. He actually talked about his T sessions. Says he doesnt see much progress going on, that the T said he has some sort of problem/disorder with him getting a hold of his anger and controlling himself when conflict arise (hense, the lack of patience when he gets upset)
To top things off the T will no longer be taking insurance as of Dec. maybe that's a good thing, I pray we find a new better T. For the time being she wants to test him on a deeper level about his learning def. problem (causing trouble at work big time).

I mentioned MC, he said he isn't ready, and that his T mentioned we might need someone neutral, she/H think I've been seen him more often, I mentioned to him that I've only seen the T only one more time more than him. H thinks the MC is too forceful with him (he's said this before) and that just baffles me! whenever we r together the T is always gently and never ever reproaches him in any way, perhaps during the last session when they had a 1on1 about the 2nd A that the C might've laid it on him (he deserved it!).

Anyways, that's where things are. More often than not he is more at easy at home, thought the noise the kids make does exacerbate him a bit more, I know it is normal with ADHD people. I took a chance and hugged him and told him that now and then I'd like a hug, that I missed him upstairs (he sleeps downstairs) he responded to the hug but said nothing else, which was fine with me. We kissed good night, a small peck, I made him kiss me on the lips, which is fine with him. So I 'll run with that, I will hug him here and there and make sure we kiss before the night is over, he always says good night to me and lots of times he acts the way he used to long ago, before the bombs, and I wonder why he doesn't come up.

But I have to keep to my word, for the time being, specially during his probation period at work I won't demand affection and other stuff from him, 'til dec when we go to MC and we reasses where we are heading.

We plan to dress up and go to out partying for halloween, we are really looking forward to that, should be fun