So last night I was really bad. I could not stop crying, so I packed up all of the pictures that were out, our wedding and honeymoon photo albums and anything else that reminded me of her and put them in a box. I did all of this before I went to counseling. About an hour before my session, guess who's called. Yep she did. I tried to calm down before answering but she could automatically tell. Then she asked me why I was crying...then here is where I made a mistake. I yelled "why do you think!!" She said that she just asked and question and then I said I was sorry for yelling at her. We talked for about half hr, she was stressed out and she needed to get out of the hotel and just wanted someone to talk to. She didnt mentation the divorce or the papers or even the R. We just talked, she sounded as if nothing was wrong. I told her that I would call her when I returned from counseling if she wanted to talk then. Well counseling went really bad, I cried throughout most of it and I really didnt feel like talking. So I told her that counseling didnt go good and I didnt want to talk. I told her that maybe we can talk tomorrow..


Me - thanks for the advise and thanks for sharing your sitch. I will not brag my feet on this. WHo knows maybe we can turn things around like you did.