ILY's & ML...no fights..this is a strange S! Help!

[nephartiti]

Hang in there, Ginger. You seem to have an H who wants to keep a connection with you. This is a good thing. Many of us are trying to just establish communication. It sounds like you both have things to work on. Heck, we all do. Take some time for yourself. Really tae some time to write down what the real issues are for you. Choose your battles wisely. Sometimes it' better to just let some things go (like you told your H when he was ranting).

How are you doing with GAL? You don't have to be there every time H comes over. Setting boundaries also means you can ask him to reschedule if you can't handle interaction with him when he wants to come. You don't have to answer the phone either. You can return his calls when you are ready.

(((HUGS)))