I am glad, in a way, that he is still on his tirades now that he is gone. It's my hope he will see that I'm not the cause of his anger, that he will take ownership of it and get help.
I hope so too.
I also hope, that you will be able to let go of his past behaviour, to be able to better recognize positives in his current behaviour.
To me, his call to you was a positive thing in the overall scheme of things, but seems like you have internally marked it down as all negative.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
