Separated and W has a BF.

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You situation sound a lot like mine in ways. Hang in there I know this OM stuff is almost imposible to deal with, but I think you have a real chaance of getting your W back. She still seems really confused.

I know my W has been texting a guy she meet a couple weeks ago and it really gets to me it makes me often times just want to throw in the towell. The last 2 days I had easy opportunities to snoop and didn't do it, although it is a hard thing to do. Maybe tell her you want to be her friend, but you are not interested in hearing anything about OM.