Good job on the drinks/quasi-date thing. Takes a lot to make those little baby steps. Sort of like dipping your little toe in the pool just to see what it *might* be like.
I am about to do the same with my pub crawl tomorrow. Although the crowd is a little young and its a group thing...its about as close to "date" as I have come yet. I don't count drinks with pals of the opposite sex. Who knows maybe I will be having a quasi date my self sooner or later. Esp since my H is out there dating away. Not giong to sit home and worry about. Going to go have my own good time
I have to agree that I am really starting to feel like my H is actually an ex since I no longer live with him, he is dating and refuses to work on the M. Its been 5 months of S. I don't feel like it would be cheating or an A at this point for either of us at this point.
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Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
