I totally agree. I love the won't give her "head space" comment. That is where I am at (today..lol) Somedays are harder than others but today is a good day..
I know many of these OW are obsessed with LBS. It think it is due to the fact that when these OW met our H's they were not mentally right. All these OW know are the MLC WAS. Now, when the WAS starts to come out of the "tunnel" so to speak, the OW start to panic..Oh no..
They now we had the "normal" H's. We had the H's when we were starting off as newlyweds, starting families, starting homes, etc. We have the HEALTHY MEMORIES..these OP don't.,
I am a threat because I have moved on. I am a threat because I am the stable one and she knows it.
I feel bad for her son, too. I hear horror stories about the OW's ex from my kids..It is all so pathetic and sad for the kids.
THe on again/ off again stuff is so hard on the kids. These children have been through their parents divorce and now this crap. That is what I addressed in T the other day. I said these kids have been through ENOUGH and I told XH if you are going to willingly put these kids through the fighting and the drama, I am going to stop it. Period.
He knew I was right.
Well, off to the gym..
Thanks for the posts, Angelica..You are always so grounded when you come here with your thoughts and I love reading your replies..
