That would be great, thanks! Have a quick question: Any idea on how to go dark while wife is still living in the house? I know how to GAL with her here - just get out and do something for me. But how do you go dark in the present situation? I've tried but it would be so much easier if she wasn't here (crazy that I'm even saying that!!)

One thing that concerns me is that GAL'ing and going dark are going to be interpreted as me finally accepting the fact that our marriage has reached the end of the line when in fact this is far from the truth.

Maybe I shouldn't be concerned. In fact it could be better, I suppose, if she thinks this way. If she feels I'm still trying to work on us, it will continue to push her away - maybe?

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Me: 39/W: 37
D13-D11-S8
M/T 14/20

EA confirmed: 9/13/07
D-Bomb: 9/19/07
OM Gone since 12/18/07
W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07