GISH You got to calm down. You cannot control her. All you can do is control you. You cannot stop her going - the more you try the more determined she will be to go.

I personally don't think it matters which of the forums you go in. You got to sort yourself out. I don't believe your wife is a hardened MLCer - but I do believe you have got to learn to get some balls. That doesn't mean being nasty or horrid - I mean find YOU. Somewhere along this M you dissapeared into we. Your W is finding herself - to survive - and give you M any chance of survival you have got to do the same. Please.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength