It is so hard to stay focused on what needs to be, in these sitches. We all get so emotional. That is why we are here and that is why when you need a shoulder to sry on you can come here.
You are doing very well with the boundry you have implemented. No matter how much it hurts it would be worse to let him keep doing what he is.
You are a better person than that and don't deserve that kind of treatment from anyone.
Thinking of you, J
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez