another bomb is dropped

[Rob1231]

Hi hopeful,

I also got a second bomb (not as severe as yours) after I had moved into piecing.

I agree with what's been said before - this is a big warning sign that you need to get back into DBing gear. It's so easy to fall back into old habits and start taking things for granted - after all, wouldn't we all like a M that we can rely upon without having to work, work, work at it all the time? But I think, even in a really good M, that's unrealistic.

Your posts so far have been about W and your reactions to her actions. Let's hear about YOU. What have you done in your DBing process that worked in the past? What are you doing (or not doing) lately? What's your plan for "more of what works"?