H is dragging his feet, he has been anxious to get the divorce over and done with, but has now missed dates that he should have submitted the financial file to court.
It seems I have to follow the rules at every stage but that he can please himself.
The convo H had with our son indicates that nothing has changed, there's no remorse in his voice, no acknowledgement that he has caused any of this, seems to still be angry with me,
I need this divorce much more than H, he needs a financial settlement, I need peace and stability.
I'm aware that the divorce isn't going to solve problems, but at least I will be able to sleep better knowing where I stand.
I'm pleased my son is prepared to offer his dad another opportunity to try to rebuild their relationship, I am anxious that H will go off again, and leave it months again before he contacts son. the youngest son has emotionally joined the self preservation society, he is refusing to contact his dad, I understand fully.
