So, these things are good. I just don't know how much I want to say...because it seems like keeping H on the hotseat is the only thing that works. In the past, when I said that things were better during MC, he started to back off what he was doing. Maybe I'll just say that I'm nervous about complimenting H because I'm afraid he'll back off. It's honest, right? SD
Oh yes! I know this one!!!! My H would ask "are you OK" and of course in full on good DB mode I would say "Yes" and he'd look releived as if he was thinking "phew, she's said she's OK so the pressure is off I don't have to try anything I can just slob out".
Hmmm... will think on this one, there is a solution to this....most of it involves patience though
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
