OMG OMG OMG M organ, My post from yesterday did not get sent! Ugh. OK it is too late now. I wish I could have been here for you sooner. Did it really go that badly? It sounds like it went real badly? Like the way it played out in your worst case scenario head. All dramatic and him being insensitive and defensive. I am truly sorry. This too shall pass.
Morgan, do not give your H any more power in these sitches. Do not give him any ammunition to blow him and you up. Each time you remind him that he is supposed to love you, their natural reaction is to try to figure out why they do not EVEN IF THEY DO!!!
I know how you feel about it being our day and they making it just another sinful day with OP. That is sacriligious, right? How can these whores be with married men on their children's birthdays, or their wives' anniversaries, Mother's Day? They must really believe they are single again and we are just baby mommies from the past? So when did our Hs become fodder for Jerry Springer?
Can you start over tomorrow? No contact with hubbie unless you act totally as if. Don't apoligize or anything, just ACT as if. I imagine that my H is still nuts about me but just feels like he cannot have me so he has to be an a$$. His loss.
You can always remind your kids that they did come from a married couple who loved each other so much they made beautiful kids. Sometimes people grow so far apart and make each other so sad they do not live together. But ten years ago you had a big wedding in a pretty place, like a princess. Even Princess Diana got a divorce though. Remember you cannot guilt your H in this sitch.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
