Mrs c, thanks for mentioning the opposing views... I was thinking about this this afternoon while I was running around: RJ, you seem to be in a sort of "swirling eddy"--- on the one hand, you want your H to be turned on to you sexually/physically and act on those feelings, but OTOH you've labeled too much physicality as superficial and shallow.
I wonder also if the fact that your H connected physically with someone else has led you to label physical connection as superficial in order to keep at bay the thought that he had a deeper connection with this woman than he wants to have with you.
I don't mean to beat up on you... but this is so interesting to me (and to our sister four, mrs c). Your recent statements about shallowness and superficiality are something I don't recall hearing from you before.
