well that sure puts a twist on things. I don't know still bout the OW. I'm thinking that if has any interest in her as an OW that he shouldn't do it. And about him not lying, you really can't know for sure. I think he still cares about you, and isn't just about hurting you as much as he can, so it is still possible that he is lying just to protect you. I believe that's what my H was doing, or else it was the guilt.
I would still ask him to talk to a kid C about it first if you can convince him.
CVA, thanks for the clarification!
and who said their goal is "butt pants"???? what in the world is that!?!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."