I've been reading your postings and like most others on this board yours is similar to mine - MLC and OM. We were divorced on 8/24/07. We were married for 12 years and I feel like I don't even know her any more. I know I have been a big part of the problem, but she just seems so incredibly selfish now. We have 3 daughters and they seem to be the last of her worries. I too wish she would wake up from her fantasy that she has been living.
I have become a much better person as a result of this. I'm going to a church retreat tomorrow night. My relationship with God has been a huge part of my healing. I know the pain will eventually go away, but it still seems to come and go in waves. I've accepted that whatever happens is all in God's time. I hope and pray that my ex and I can work it out someday.
