I remember you from when I was here a year and a half ago. I am sorry to see your situation has not gotten better. I know it is hard. I have a H that has a Mother that does everything for him. I turned the electric out of my name when I left and she turned everything on in his name. She hired him and gave him an advance in pay so he could go to the mountains with his mistress. It is hard but you are lucky the girls are taken care of. My husbands OW is bipolar just like he is and together they are quite scarey so my children have had little to no contact with their dad in the beginning and now we are 1400 miles away to be safe.
Hang in there and be the best you can be. You are a wonderful person and in time your life will look up for you. I get so tired of people telling me that but I do believe its true.
People always say when God closes a door he opens a window but what they neglect to tell you is it is hell in the hallway!
Hang in there.
Hugs
M 32 H 39 SS 15, SD 12, S11, S9, D7, D6, D4 E/A 02/06 WAS 03/06 RH 05/06 On 07/07 told me he wants to leave again. On 08/11/07 Walked out again.
People say "When God closes a door he opens a window." They forget to tell you "It is hell in the hallway!"
