I have not posted on this site ---- I have been going through this MLC madness for just over a year now (H moved out last year). I am not sure what stage H (49 yrs - married 21 yrs)is but he is now talking to me (& not at the wall - 6 months ago he would not look me in the eye). He seems to be all over the place at the moment -- I see "flashes" of his old self and then any little issues -- he goes "back into hiding" --so far been through the convertible sports car, American Eagle wardrobe, rock concerts with my 15 year old, bought a condo 3 weeks ago etc....not sure if there is OW.
The one thing I want to say to you is A BIG THANK YOU --- you have saved my life & my sanity --- at one time I thought I was the insane one - I could not function - the pain was unbearable. I have read most of your postings .... you did what the therapists could not do for me--- I did not know HOW to move forward -- I did not know how to cope --- NOW I am strong --- thanks to you ---I now have the knowledge to cope -- I focus on me . I am not sure what the future holds but I am not afraid --- through you I have conquered my fears. I am finding happiness within myself.
You have been around a long time & I hope you are at peace too --- you deserve to be --- you have saved many --- I think of you as my cyber angel -- I pray to get through this madness and I have this feeling that all will be well - when I am sad or unsure -- I read your postings --- you give me hope. THANK YOU SNODDERLY.
